Real men know how to make girls feel special. It's definitely an important skill, and can help build strong relationships, so that the special girl, and the man himself takes the relationship more seriously.
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1If the girl is close enough, playful and innocent kisses of various parts of the face, such as the cheeks, forehead, corner of the mouth, etc. are very effective at making the girls feel good about themselves, and about spending time with you.
- 2If the girl isn't quite close enough for kisses, or isn't yet comfortable with them, embraces are fantastic, and work just as well. Putting your arm around a girl's shoulders, waist, or putting your hand on their upper or lower back is great. Wrap your arms meaningfully around the girl, and make sure your bodies touch from the chest to the thighs. Don't do the creepy, awkward, "I'm hugging you, but you have cooties, so our bodies aren't gonna touch for long" thing. Nobody likes that.
- 3Compliment the girl, only at a rate of 1 compliment every 30 min. to an hour. Too many compliments are creepy, as is complimenting the girl about the same thing more than once. like, if you constantly tell her how juicy and beautiful her lips are, she might be afraid of date rape, and that's no fun. But just telling her one time that her lip shape is very pretty could be nice. or, the best, is just saying, "you look very pretty/nice etc. today"
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4Say "I love you" at least once a day, sometimes once every other day. If you say it too much, it stops being meaningful, and if you don't say it enough, you're not getting the point across. Say it at the right time. LEARN, when the right time is.
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5When you're out alone and you come across something small and meaningful, buy it for her. Do this only every so often. Don't shower her with gifts. Don't get her something that you could give to anybody. If it's something that is symbolic of something she likes, or something that you have in common, it shows that you care and listen to the things she says.
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6Don't be a man-whore. Show her noticeably more attention than you show other girls. Don't talk too much, or show too much affection to other girls, especially if she is present. You can find girl's attractive, but don't give into temptation, Adam, and actually BE attracted to them.
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7Use terms of endearment, like sweety, cocoa, love, baby, angel, princess, hun, honey, etc. Use her name, though, just as often. Girls like hearing you use their name and say something nice in the same sentence. (combine this with the previous step that had to do with compliments. e.g. "you look very pretty today, Lexi"
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8Make eye contact, smile, and listen
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9Make sure she knows that you're loyal. Don't straight up and say "I'm so loyal. You're lucky you have me." Because then you seem cocky, and/or like you're trying to compensate for or hide something. But, if she acknowledges another girl for her being pretty, (in some cases, prettier than she herself is) tell her that you think that she is much prettier. Mean it, she knows if you're lying. (when girls make skin contact, they can hear your thoughts)
